Dillon laughs it off because he’s neither bisexual nor gay. His friends believe Dillon will eventually come out as gay-and several have volunteered to be his first male sex partner. He has gone to gay bars with gay friends where he has occasionally made out with a guy. Yet, since elementary school Dillon has had intense infatuations with guys and slight same-sex attractions. Similar to straight guys, he had casual hookups with women, dated several women, and currently has a long-term girlfriend. When I first interviewed 20-year-old Dillon for Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men (Harvard University Press), he was a goalie for his college hockey team.
